I do use singular "they" as pronouns and honestly, it can be a massive hassle to get people to use them. If using she/her doesn't cause particular distress and your friends use a name for you that you feel comfortable using, you're making a perfectly valid decision about where you want to direct your energy.
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Date: 2017-06-22 10:46 am (UTC)I do use singular "they" as pronouns and honestly, it can be a massive hassle to get people to use them. If using she/her doesn't cause particular distress and your friends use a name for you that you feel comfortable using, you're making a perfectly valid decision about where you want to direct your energy.